做勇敢的女孩演講稿

　　青春是人生的鮮花，是年輕生命的閃耀，是純真的結晶。接下來就讓小編給大家分享，希望大家喜歡。

　　【一】

　　就算軟弱的時候，我也告訴自己：不流淚光。

　　連這個世界上最勇敢最堅強最正義最偉大的民族英雄魯迅都感慨道：人生最痛苦的事情是夢醒了無路可走。

　　是啊，在這個大大世界，誰沒曾遇見點挫折呢，在成長的過程中，從來都是伴著心酸和血雨。

　　所以，我要做最勇敢的那個自己，即使受傷也不閃淚光。

　　小學的時候，曾為一道數學題不會做而著急的哭泣，中學時曾為想家而哭泣，大學畢業的時候，為了離別而哭泣，甚至，也曾為了愛情而哭泣。回想起這一幕幕，我看見幼稚的卻也不斷在成長的自己。

　　我已經不是那個懵懂的女孩。

　　因為我相信自己可以變得更加勇敢，即使一路風雨覆蓋，我也要努力飛翔。

　　參加這份工作已經整整三個月了，從最初的不知所措到現在的從容應對，也算是成長了不少，不過我很慶幸的是，遇見不錯的領導和同事，我們彼此相處融洽。辦公室本來就是一個很綜合的部門，管的事情也比較多，資料，考勤，公章，會議記錄，工作總結，企業文化建設，宣傳報道……我做的還太少太少。

　　慢慢的總結經驗和教訓，每次收穫一點點，我開始學著獨立的應對，不再每次都要依賴別人。

　　不知道從哪裡看到這樣的一個說法：每個人的身體裡都住這個兩個小人，一個叫勇敢，一個叫軟弱，他們每時每刻都在打架，當軟弱的小人把勇敢的小人打敗了，那個人一定就是軟弱的。

　　我希望自己身體裡的小人總是勇敢的獲勝，因為我是，越長大越成熟的我，面對挫折會把頭高高昂起的我，帶著翅膀勇敢飛翔的我。

　　工作三個月了，你好麼?我問自己。

　　我現在過得很好，請不要為我擔心，我會勇敢的。

　　【二】

　　好長時間沒看日曆了，時間過的真快呀!眨眼間我已經整二十幾天沒出家門了。還好，水痘是在這個假期得的。儘管悶在家裡很難受，但畢竟沒有耽誤功課，回想起這段遭遇，真是苦不堪言、不堪回首啊!

　　07年的12月26日，這是一個黑色的星期六，下了外語課，回到家裡已是正午時分，我突然覺得很不舒服，有種昏昏欲睡的感覺，不知過了多久，有一隻大手蓋在了我的額頭上，是爸爸。爸爸說我發燒了……

　　就在這個時候，我忽然覺得身上有點癢，一看，我才發現身上起了紅痘痘：“這是怎麼一回事呢?”好奇心驅使我不停的追問爸爸，爸爸告訴我這應該是得水痘了。聽了爸爸的回答，我心想糟了，這段時間我可能沒有自由了，因為我聽得過水痘的同學說起過的，水痘怕風，還不能沾水，恐怕連洗澡也是不可能了。

　　轉眼間，已經到了第三天，紅紅的痘痘已經變成了水靈靈的泡泡，佈滿全身。無意中發現鏡子裡的我已是面目全非，不堪入目，原來的我臉上也長出了可怕的痘痘，我的心一下子沉了下去。壓抑的心情，加上奇癢難耐，使的我身心備受煎熬。

　　到了第四天，我有點受不了了，痘痘讓我“氧”不欲生，我在床上又蹦又跳，甚至滿地打滾，剛想撓一下，爸爸就嚴厲的說：“不許撓，會留疤痕的。”可我怎麼能不去管它呢?難受啊!

　　終於有一天，我實在忍不住了，趁家裡沒人，我大叫起來，我是暄洩一下心裡的痛苦與無奈，可此時此刻，我才清楚的意識到，煩燥的心情非但不能減輕我的痛苦，相反只能使我更加痛苦、難奈……理智告訴我我必須平靜下來，雖然要做到這一點很難。

　　我努力的剋制自己不安的情緒，使自己的心態儘量的平和下來。可能是心理作用吧!平靜後的心情，使我覺得似乎不那麼難受了。身體上的泡泡也不那麼奇癢難忍了。記不清這是第幾天了，漸漸的身上的水泡結了痂。原本以為我這段痛苦的過程可以告一段落，禁錮了我數天的自由也該結束了，我正暗暗的為這天的到來而感到興奮不已，當時的心情可能正如大人們所說的49年的國慶前夕吧!就要解放了的感覺。可是，當爸爸帶我來診所諮詢複查的時候，才得知遠沒有我想象的那麼簡單，醫生說我至少還要在家忍耐十天，因為，結痂後的一段時間是傳染期，我知道得水痘的痛苦了，不想我的夥伴和同學也經歷這樣的遭遇，為了不讓我的痛苦傳染給我的夥伴也為了夥伴們不在遭遇和我同樣的痛苦，我決定繼續在家閉門10天，在這漫長的十天中，做筆記是我排遣心中的寂寞與無奈的最好方法，我不停的通過筆尖把我的痛苦，無奈，複雜，矛盾的心情記錄在白紙上。

　　水痘終於出完了，但是這段痛苦的經歷，使我得到了磨鍊，也堅定了我的意志和信念，同時心理也承受了考驗，心態也成熟了許多。正如歌中所唱：就像蝴蝶必定經過蛹的掙扎，才會有對翅膀堅實如畫。也就是說，蝴蝶之所以美麗是因為它經過了一個痛苦的蛻變過程。但願我的這段過程也能使我迅速的得到蛻變吧!

　　我想要對夥伴們說的是;水痘並不可怕，如果哪天你們也與水痘遭遇了，記得千萬別低頭，一定要堅強，勇敢的面對，最終勝利的一定是你。

　　風雨要來，不要避開，就算風雨覆蓋，也要做勇敢的女孩!

　　【三】

　　Be a brave girl So few years ago,i did something really brave,or some would say really stupid. I run for Congress! For years ,i had existed safely behind the scenes in politics, as a funderaiser,or a organizer,but in my heart ,i always wanted to run. The sitting congresswoman had been in my district since 1992. She had never lost a race ,and no one had even run against her in a Democratic primary. But in my mind ,this is my way to make a difference ,to disrupt the status quo. The polls ,however,told a very different story .my pollsters told me that i was crazy to run,that there was no way that i could win,but i run anyway, and in 2012, i became a upstart in a New York city congressional race. I swore i was going tor win . i had the endorsement from the New York Daily News. The Wall Street Journal snapped pictures of me on election day and CNBC called it one of the hottest races in the country. I raised money from everyone i knew, including indian aunties that were just so happy an indian girl was running. But on election day ,the polls were right,and i only got 19% of the vote and the same papers that said i was a rising political star now said i wasted 1.3 million dollars on 6,321 votes. Do not do the maths. It was humulating. Now before you got the wrong idea this is not a talk about the importance of failure nor is it about leaning in. I tell you the story of how i ran for Congress because i was 33 years old and it was first time in my entire life that i had done something that was turely brave, where i did not worry about being perfect. And i am not alone:so many women talk to tell me that they gravitate towards careers and professions that they know they are going to be perfect in, and it is no wonder why, most girls are taught to avoid risk and failure. We are taught to smile pretty, play it safe ,get all A‟s. Boys ,on the other hand ,are taught to play rough,swing high ,crawl to the top of the monkey bars and then just jump off headfirst. And by the time they are adults,whether they are negotiating a raise or asking someone out on a date, they are habituated to take risk after risk. They are rewarded for it . It is often said in silicon valley, no one even takes you seriously unless you have had two failed start-ups. In other words, we are raising our girls to be perfect,and we are raising our boys to be brave. Some people worry about our federal deficit ,but i ,i worry about our bravery deficit. Our economy ,our society ,we are just losing out because we are not raising our girls to be brave. The bravery deficit is why women are underrepresented in STEM,in C-suites, in boardrooms,in Congress and pretty much everywhere you look. In the 1980s, psychologist Carol Dweck looked at how bright fifth graders handed an assignment that was too difficult for them. She found that bright girls were quick to give up. The higher the IQ, the more likely they were to give up. Boys on the other hand ,found the diffficult material to be a challenge. They found it energizing. They were more likey to redouble their efforts. What is going on ? Well ,at the fifth grade level, girls routinel y outperform boys in every subject,including math and science. So it is not a question of ability. The difference is in how boys and girls approach a challenge. And it does not just end in fifth grade. An HP report found that men will apply for a job if they meet 60% of the qualifications, but women ,women will apply if they meet 100% of the qualifications.

　　This study usually invoked as evidence that,well ,women need a little more confidence, but i think it is evidence that women have been socailized to aspire to perfection and they are overly cautious. And even when we are ambitious, even when we are leaning in ,that socialization of perfection has caused us to take less risks in our careers. And so those 600,000 jobs that are open right now, in computer and tech ,women are being left behind and it means our economy is being left behind on all the innovation and problems women would solve if they were socialized to be brave instead socialized to be perfect. So in 2012, i atarted a company to teach girls to code, and what i found is that by teaching them to code, i had socialized them to be brave. Coding ,is an endless process of trial and error, of trying to get the right command in the right place, with sometimes just a semicolon ,making the difference between success and failure. Code breaks and then it falls apart,and it often takes, many many times until that magical moment. When what you are trying to build comes to life. It requires perseverance. It requires imperfection. We immediately see in our program ,our girls are fear of not getting it right,of not being perfect. Every Girls Who Code teacher tells me the same story. During the first week ,when the girs are learning how to code,a student will call her over and she will say “i do not know what code to write” . The teacher looked at her screen and she will see a blank text editor. If she did not know any better ,she would think that her student spent past 20 minutes just staring at the screen. But if she presses undo a few times she will say that her student wrote code and then deleted it. She tried and she came close,but she did not get it exactly right. Instead of showing the progress that she made, she‟d rather show nothing at all. Perfection or bust. It turns out that our girls are really good at coding, but it is not enough just to teach them to code. My friend lev brie ,who is a professor at the university of Columbia and teaches into java, tells me about his office hours with computer science students. When the guys are struggling with an assignment,they will come in and say”professor, there is something wrong with my code”. The girls will come in and say “professor, there is something wrong with me.” we have to begin to undo the socialization of perfection,but we „ve got to combine it with building a sisterhood that lets girls know that they are not alone. Because trying harder is not going to fix a broken system. I can not tell you how many women tell me “i am afraid to raise my hand,i am afraid to ask a question,because i do not want to be the only one who does not understand,the only one who is struggling. ” when we teach girls to be brave and we have a supportive network cheering them on,they will build incredible things,and i see this every day. Take for instance, two of our high school students,who built a game called tampon run. Yes Tampon Run ,to fight against the menstruation taboo and sexism in gaming. Or the Syrian refugee who dared to show her love for her new country by building an app to help Americans get to the polls. Or a 16-year -old girl who built an algorithm to help detect whether a cancer is benign or malignant in the off chance that she can save her daddy‟s life because he has cancer. These are just three of thousands, thousands of girs have been socialized to be imperfect,who have learned to keep trying, who have learned perserverance. And whether they became coders or the next Hilllary Clinton or Beyonce,they will not defer their dreams. And those dreams have never been more important for our country.

　　For the American economy ,for any economy to grow, to turely innovate, we can not leave behind half our population, we have to socialize our girls to be comfortable with imperfection, and we have got to do it now. We can not wait for them to learn how to be brave like i did when i was 33 years old. We have teach them to be brave in schools and early in their carers. When it has the most potential to impact their lives and the lives of others and we have to show them that they will be loved and accepted not for being perfect but for being courageous. And i need each of you to tell every young woman you know --your sister ,your niece ,your employee,your colleague to be comfortable with imperfection, because when we teach girls to be imperfect,and we help them leverage it ,we will bulid a movement of young women who are brave and who will build a better world for themselves and for each and every one of us. Thank you.!